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As part of the relaunch of their Pregnancy & Parenting site, iVillage recently asked its readers to complete a Married Sex survey. Among the key findings were these interesting results:
- 63% of married women said they would prefer to catch up on an extra hour of sleep, watch a movie or read a book than have sex with their spouse
- 31% of women reported that they had a better sex life before marriage
- 14% of women have participated in sexting, while 17% have sent flirty email messages
- 44% of women said the quality of their sex life has not changed since having kids
- 23% of women have sex 1 to 3 times a month
iVillage wants to encourage couples with children to enjoy a “Summer of Love”, and today they’re giving away a Summer of Love gift basket (valued at $100!) to one lucky Deal Seeking Mom reader! The gift basket includes:
- beach blanket
- 2-in-1 massage oil from K-Y
- cooler with plastic champagne flutes, napkins, bottle of champagne
- Listerine strips
- gourmet pretzels
- chocolate covered strawberries
- fun-shaped ice cube trays and popsicle molds
- tanning oil
- scented candles
- iVillage tote bag
- red nail polish
To enter, share your best tip for couples with children who want to spice up their love life!
Every reader has four methods available to enter this contest. Choose one each of any combination of method one, two, three, or four for up to a total of 4 entries!!!
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Prize:
(1) Summer of Love gift basket, as described above
This giveaway ends at 7pm EDT on Thursday, 5/27 and is open to all U.S. residents 18 years or older. I’ll use Comment Contest to select the winning comment. Winner will be notified by email and listed on my Giveaway Winners page. Winners must respond within 48 hours of notification to claim their prize. Good luck!
While you’re in a contest entering mood, don’t forget to check out the Giveaway Gathering for a variety of contests being hosted on Deal Seeking Mom readers’ blogs!


tiffany
ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW OUR KIDS GOT THERE. PAMPER YOURSELF AFTER A LONG WEEK AND GET ALL SEXY-IED UP. BECAUSE IF YOU FEEL SEXY LIKE YOU LOOK HOT YOU WILL FEEL SEXY FOR YOUR HUSBAND ALSO.
Jan
Send the kids to grandmas for the night! We also try to go out once a month without the kids.
Heidi
my tip: plan a date while the kids are in school, dates and movies and hotels are open during the day!
Shawnda
We always try to have a date night so we can get out and be adults for a couple of hours!
Shawnda
I’m an email subscriber
Chelsea
Make the time to have a date at least every few weeks!
Chelsea
I subscribe via RSS
Kandace
Let the cleaning wait until later, and spend the time after kids have gone to bed together.
angela frazier
if u cant find a babysitter . wake kids up really early one morning and when its nap time u and your hubby have some quiet time together.
Shawna
A “secret” meeting during the day is always fun and just flirting with each other is sometimes lost in the hustle and bustle of life!
Crystal
I am an email subsriber
Crystal
Pick a night and have the kids stay with a baby sitter and go out and do something together doesn’t have to cost anything. Sometimes my husband and I just go out and take a walk together to have some time with out the kids.
MARY
I am an email subscriber.
Rachel
We don’t have kids yet, so I don’t have any tips to share. But hopefully with such a lovely package, we might have kids soon! (wink wink)
Bree
Leave secret notes where the kids can’t see for an element of surprise. Send text messages of little love notes. Just to make each other know you are think of them. Even if its just a little makeup and a dinner alone without the kids. It goes a long way!
Rachel
Also, I’m a happy RSS-feed subscriber! As always, thanks for the great tips, links, and giveaways!
MARY
A great way to spice things up is to hire a babysitter and go on a 1-day vacation.
deb
Get a babysitter…
letty
Go out on a date together, leave kids at a family members house to spend the night and have a rooooomantic night.
letty
I subscribe via email. Love your site
Jennifer Williams
get a babysitter! :)
Jennie
I made my husband a scrapbook memory frame and listed all the reasons why I love him. I think that it is the little things that count after you have children to keep a romance going or to rekindle a flame.
Bianca
After the kids are in bed, throw on something sex for the hubby. It’ll show that you still care about looking good in front of him. He’ll love it! :)
Bianca
I have your badge on my side bar!
Melissa
Trade off sleepovers with other couples with kids, all you need is a little uninterrupted alone time!!!
Connie Corey
Get a sitter and go out on a regular basis just as adults!
Sara
Keep it interesting and spontaneous when the kids are with the baby sitter. Planned spiciness isn’t always spicy if you know what I mean. Just get a sitter and go crazy.
Heather FG
I subscribe to DSM via e-mail
Heather FG
I have three children and now and then my parents will take them for a night. We don’t go out…we stay in;-)
Melissa Amos
We always try to have a date night on Friday night. It’s the only real quality time we get to spend together during our busy weeks.