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As part of the relaunch of their Pregnancy & Parenting site, iVillage recently asked its readers to complete a Married Sex survey. Among the key findings were these interesting results:
- 63% of married women said they would prefer to catch up on an extra hour of sleep, watch a movie or read a book than have sex with their spouse
- 31% of women reported that they had a better sex life before marriage
- 14% of women have participated in sexting, while 17% have sent flirty email messages
- 44% of women said the quality of their sex life has not changed since having kids
- 23% of women have sex 1 to 3 times a month
iVillage wants to encourage couples with children to enjoy a “Summer of Love”, and today they’re giving away a Summer of Love gift basket (valued at $100!) to one lucky Deal Seeking Mom reader! The gift basket includes:
- beach blanket
- 2-in-1 massage oil from K-Y
- cooler with plastic champagne flutes, napkins, bottle of champagne
- Listerine strips
- gourmet pretzels
- chocolate covered strawberries
- fun-shaped ice cube trays and popsicle molds
- tanning oil
- scented candles
- iVillage tote bag
- red nail polish
To enter, share your best tip for couples with children who want to spice up their love life!
Every reader has four methods available to enter this contest. Choose one each of any combination of method one, two, three, or four for up to a total of 4 entries!!!
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Prize:
(1) Summer of Love gift basket, as described above
This giveaway ends at 7pm EDT on Thursday, 5/27 and is open to all U.S. residents 18 years or older. I’ll use Comment Contest to select the winning comment. Winner will be notified by email and listed on my Giveaway Winners page. Winners must respond within 48 hours of notification to claim their prize. Good luck!
While you’re in a contest entering mood, don’t forget to check out the Giveaway Gathering for a variety of contests being hosted on Deal Seeking Mom readers’ blogs!


Mindy
Timing is everything, so go for it whenever you happen to get the chance. Don’t wait until night…..I’m worn out by then!
Kathleen
turn off the TV and take whatever time you can get together and make it count!
Mindy
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jenni
Date night–take kids to grandparents. Go home before picking kids up! :)
Dona
A really big tub with lots of candles helps to set a romantic scene for alone time, it really works for us
Jordan
My best tip would be once a month or every other month, get a hotel room. Somewhere nearby, go to a fancy dinner, and have the kids stay with family or a sitter. There’s something so intimate about getting away, even if it’s just a few miles away, with your loved one! You feel like teenagers again!
Judy
taking time to do and say thank you for all the little things…makes one look forward to moments of romance.
Mindy Ranck
we go out and sit in the hot tub together and relax and talk after we get all 3 kids in bed for the night. It’s our time to unwind and relax, plus it’s our time to chat.
Minde Yorchak
Take a mini-vacation with just the two of you. It works wonders!
Renee
Definitely make time for yourselves…our kids are now 18, 16, and 12 and as you realize that time has flown and it seems like they were small just yesterday, your relationship with your spouse has done the same…just moved over time…we have recently realized that if it is left up to our kids, there would be no alone time…so carve it out of busy schedules and have fun!!
Minde Yorchak
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Ashley T
Have a regular date night. Many families have responsible nieces or nephews, Aunts or Uncles who could switch off and on!
Christy Rodriguez
Get a lock on the bedroom door….
JL
That basket provides some good ideas for a relationship renewer!
Christy
We have a date night every couple of months.
Ashlee
Our biggest tip is simply remember to always make time for each other. When my son was first born it was a huge adjustment like I’m sure it is for everyone. I wasn’t getting any sleep and there was no time for just my husband and I. I made a rule very early on where we would take 10 minutes every day to focus on each other fully. Just to ask how your day was and things like that. I think it really made us stay connected.
Penny
Date night atleast once a month and a weekend vacation (just the two of you) once a year! And if your risky, visit and adult store for some toys! ;)
Ashlee
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Trish Kaval
Make time for each other during the week. Even if its only a half hour of quality time talking or cuddling.
Minde Yorchak
I joined the forum!
Ashlee
I get your emails
Angelina
I am a member of the forum
Sarah
Appreciating everything you do for each other and telling the other how much it means to you! We also like writing notes to each other often.
Erin
I am an email subscriber
Ai Mei
Leave the kids with their grandparents and take a mini-vacation. Win-win scenario.
Ai Mei
Registered user on DSM forum.
Noella
Definitely make sure your parents or friends are willing to babysit!
Nicole Dz.
Always be grateful of each other & just do those little things together to enjoy the little time you have together. Find time out of the day to let them know how much they mean.
Carrie
Know each other’s LOVE language…mine is words of affirmation. If my husband is reaffirming me with words, that means so much to me.
Nicole Dz.
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